Long time study. Here comes the output for now. Am discussing on the topic: *MEN AND SEX*
Believe it or not women find it difficult to understand the reason why men love sex.
* If they want to help you, they will demand for sex.
* If they say they love you, they want sex.
* You mistakenly sleep over, they want sex.
* They want to borrow money from you, they want sex.
* They want to give you a job, they want sex.
* They want to give you a pass in your exams, they want sex.
First of all, you need to understand the system of men. They didn't ask for that because they didn't create themselves.
Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an erection? Did they bargain for that? No!
Do you know that the penis has a mind of its own?
A man could be reading his Bible and his penis will just stand.
A man can be sleeping and wakes up with an erection.
A man could be sleeping, once you start rubbing the penis, it stands even when he is still asleep.
Have you ever asked yourself why men are not on periods, cramps or any bad moods? That's how God created them.
A man is naturally always ready for sex. Rub a man on his head, he already thinks you want sex.
Wink at him, he's already seeing you naked.
Wave at a man walking with his wife, he will loose focus.
This is nothing spiritual. It's not about, "ln Jesus Name or Holy Ghost Fire ooo".
That's why real churches do not allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front, because they will confuse the Pastor.
Men did not manufacture the high libido by themselves.
We are all created in God's image. The only man that overcame the sexual urge according to the good book was Jesus Christ. Joseph's own was that, he didn't just ran away, he fled!! Jesus is God and on top of that, He was very careful not to include a woman among His disciples.
So many great men have fallen because of sex. Do you think they wanted to?
Soldiers in the war front will develop the urge for sex. To show you how bad it is, so many soldiers were killed during Biafra war because a woman lured them inside bush.
David in the scriptures sent a woman's husband to the war front when he saw a woman washing outside. He was later told that it is the wife of his faithful servant who he has sent to war. He took the woman and had sex with her.
Do I need to tell you about Samson *Not me* *ooo* ?
Solomon and other Bible characters?
It only takes the grace of God and some level of discipline and maturity to curtail this animalistic instinct.
The way the man's body reacts to the sexual urge is not the same as a woman's body reacts to it.
How many great women have you heard messed up because of a dick? Few, or even non.
So next time a man misbehaves because of sex, don't see him as an animal. They are just responding to nature.
Don't be like, "I've lost the respect I had for you, "I thought you were responsible, so this was what you wanted?"
A 17 year old girl can make your father lose focus and collect the money meant for your school fees.
I pray you read this post with realistic understanding.
Men should also understand that it is not all erection that is meant for sex. They should learn to control their urge.
Men are wonderfully created, but
CONTROL YOURSELVES, OH YE MEN!!!
Research, *subject to amendment*
ADDENDUM FROM NNEJI
Praise God, my opinion to this article. I humbly stand to be corrected.
Teaching adults or young adults/teenagers, about their *sexual makeup* , is not a sin. Infact our cultural backgrounds in Africa has caused serious harm to us with respect to this. There are silent questions in the heart of every teenager seeking to understand why his/her body reacts the way it's does most times. I say this with audacity from the experiences i have gathered in interacting with many young adults. Therefore, I do not think that saying something about the sexual makeup of a man/woman is wrong, if the information is *correct* .
❤ *But i want to note few things* ❤
Not everything said in this article is really correct as to how men react to sexual urges. E.g you can't be reading your bible in a spiritual state and be aroused, no, because the Lord is a strong tower for safety and the Bible is Jesus Himself. Also, from ps 119:11, God's word keep us from sin and sinful urges. And very few languages here are too *vulgar* for usage in our kingdom.
Also, we note that the sexual *beastly* nature of a man is only very active when such isn't having the Holy spirit, but the Holy spirit gives us the spirit of self-control *2 Tim 1:7* in order to put such thoughts and urges in obedience to Christ. But don't expose yourself intentionally and expect victory.
In addition to that, Jesus didn't overcome because He was God, but because He had the spirit of self-control. He was tempted just like us, because He came in the complete human form. *Heb 4:15.* He also had some female informal disciples *Luke 8:1-3.*
Therefore, We (men) especially spiritual men are in charge of our sexual tendencies. *No excuse* . For remember, God doesn't allow us get tempted beyond what we can *carry* *(1 cor 10:13).*
Bro Samson, thanks for the boldness to write a piece in this line. This line of knowledge is something i suggest that the *service team, teaching ministry and PARENTS* , once in a while look into. Because you cannot have a healthy spiritual life without correct understanding of our sexual tendencies and God's precription on how to manage them. Many teenagers are captives of their sexual urges because " my people perish because of lack of knowledge".
*Nobody is a monopoly of knowledge..*
Shalom.... 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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